The Spinster Life Blog

Living A Fearlessly Single Life

Wondering how to live your best single life? You’ve come to the right place. Keep reading to learn more about how to maintain the relationships in your life, especially the one with yourself. 

I Had A Boring Abortion: Every Woman Deserves The Same

I Had A Boring Abortion: Every Woman Deserves The Same

I had a very boring, low-drama, conflict-free abortion. That is the way it should always be. Every woman deserves her own boring abortion story, a story in which she seeks healthcare and receives it in a timely, professional way. When Roe is overturned, and millions...

Do you lose your individuality as part of a relationship?

Do you lose your individuality as part of a relationship?

The longer I’m single, the more I reevaluate my relationship to dating. Pre-spinsterhood, I wanted my identity to be “part of a couple.” And now? There’s a part of me that feels like becoming half of a relationship would mean giving up a part of my soul. But is there...

Pets Are Not Practice Kids

Pets Are Not Practice Kids

As an animal lover and sometimes animal rescuer, I’m quite distressed when people get a pet as a “practice child.” First, caring for a human child and caring for a pet are wildly different experiences. Being involved in animal rescue, I’ve seen too many animals get...

I’ve “Hit The Wall” and I’m Celebrating

I’ve “Hit The Wall” and I’m Celebrating

Do you know what “hitting the wall” means? To some, it means coming up against the edge of your abilities. But some men mean it to describe the value of a woman. To them, women are only valuable until they reach the age of 25. Maybe 40 if the arbiter of value is...

A Single State Of Mind

A Single State Of Mind

A single state of mind is the knowledge that you are comfortable in your relationship with yourself. Learn how to nail the single vibe.

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